Be Real
Our elders usually say that two people can’t miss out on a lie; if the person being told a lie does not know, the person telling the lie does know. Realism matters when the choice is between you and your career progress. Unfortunately, it’s so appalling to see how many people don’t want to confront issues realistically. To perform at your best, you need to consistently take a realistic view of yourself and compare it with other colleagues and contemporaries within and outside your company or industry. Sometimes you even need to measure your own progress in the light of where you were last year and now vis-à-vis the parameters you have set for yourself previously. Before you complain about being stagnated on a job grade for so long, you need to take a sincere inventory of how you have fared compared to others and what you should be doing. Ask yourself what you are doing right or wrong and be determined to fix the ‘wrongs’ and improve on the ‘rights’. This is the sure way to ...